tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post114786206814625329..comments2023-10-09T18:12:29.276+07:00Comments on Agelessbonding: Weekend in PondyUshahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1148470026848085982006-05-24T18:27:00.000+07:002006-05-24T18:27:00.000+07:00Dear Usha,This is so amazing! I was in Bangalore a...Dear Usha,<BR/>This is so amazing! I was in Bangalore and Sravana Belagoda (May 12-17), then in Chennai, Pondicherry and Auroville (May 17-22) myself!!<BR/>Am going to blog about it. Agree with your observation about how relaxed they are with time. Noticed it as much with the coconut vendor ladies, their nose-rings glinting in the May sun.Wild Reedshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02527978162691178676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1148442330133142692006-05-24T10:45:00.000+07:002006-05-24T10:45:00.000+07:00Rational fool: Please keep visiting and feel free ...Rational fool: Please keep visiting and feel free to leave your comments - acerbity notwithstanding. :) No, I do not feel that way at all - the idea of starting the blog is to air my views and hope others will share their POV frankly. Contrarian thoughts and opinions help widen ones perspective. Bonding is not about having ppl say "great stuff, you are the best." It is as much about someone caring enough to say "hey that is a foolish thought!"Ushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1148400497072560512006-05-23T23:08:00.000+07:002006-05-23T23:08:00.000+07:00My baloney quote is with reference to Mahadevan's ...My baloney quote is with reference to Mahadevan's comment about Keralites, I quote, "<EM>Keralaite by nature</EM> are not 'happy with what they have and they do fret too much and exhibit a great deal of resilience to hardship and suffering'" (emphasis mine), and his later attempt to clarify that he had meant it be positive. If "Keralaite by nature" is not stereotyping, I don't know what else is.<BR/><BR/>I do not totally disagree with your view that "staying close to nature had an influence on ones attitude to life". I live on the outskirts of Yosemite National Park, and practically inside the Sequoia National Forest. Of those who live here, the attitudes towards life of some are influenced by nature, and others have moved here because of their attitudes towards life! Japan is an island and nearly 80% of its population live on the coast. Almost no one lives more than 120 kilometers from the sea, according to this <A HREF="http://www.oceanservice.noaa.gov/websites/retiredsites/natdia_pdf/3hinrichsen.pdf" REL="nofollow">report</A>. I have also lived for short periods of time in Tokyo and Urasa, a town nestled in the mountains, but too short to make any meaningful statement about the differences, if any, in the attitudes of the people who lived in these areas. I understand what you mean, but I still think life is too complicated to be described in terms of neat aphorisms. <BR/><BR/>It seems that almost all of those who comment on your blog have "bonded" with you already. I hope you don't mind this acerbic "fool" barging in. If you do, please don't hesitate to ask me to get off the "property", and I will. Thanks.The Rational Foolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06573904887494797998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1148372108996057982006-05-23T15:15:00.000+07:002006-05-23T15:15:00.000+07:00Ravi: I guess most people who stay close to nature...Ravi: I guess most people who stay close to nature in one form or another exhibit this. City life softens you a lot.<BR/><BR/>Mahadevan: Interesting point.<BR/><BR/>Visithra; Yes, put pondicherry on the agenda in the next visit.<BR/><BR/>Doozie: I loved your post. How come we missed each other - I was there exactly on the same dates.<BR/><BR/>Hari:If chennai was like that it would get named to soemthing else i think - the bustle and activity is what makes chennai what it is?<BR/><BR/>Preethi:I too believe that city life changes your attitude to life.<BR/><BR/>Rational fool: a friend who runs an industry in POndy for the past 25 years says that his workers are all from pondicherry and his management is from other cities and there is a marked difference in approach to work and life. The idea was not to stereotype but to highlight that staying close to nature had an influence on ones attitude to life. I think islanders and fishermen are exposed to the vagaries of nature and hence are more resilient to hardship.They value the todays more because tomorrows are uncertain. If you still feel it is baloney, i respect your opinion.<BR/><BR/>Vaish: :). YOu feel the beauty of the moments when you stop worrying about deadlines. But then life has to go on!<BR/><BR/>Kishore: yes, agree.<BR/><BR/>Cat: saw pics loved them.Thanks.<BR/><BR/>aalap: Must share your experience sometime.Ushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1148210569155349612006-05-21T18:22:00.000+07:002006-05-21T18:22:00.000+07:00Been to Pondi a few months back with my dear blogg...Been to Pondi a few months back with my dear blogger friends:) Beautiful place,holds a lot of memories:)Alapanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01888371463195868515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1148154272857165962006-05-21T02:44:00.000+07:002006-05-21T02:44:00.000+07:00It does not matter whether you meant to attribute ...It does not matter whether you meant to attribute positive or negative attitudes, accomplishments, etc. to one's gender, ethnicity, race, caste, etc. It's still stereo-typing, invalid, and dangerous. As they say around here, "Whichever way you may slice the baloney, it's still baloney".The Rational Foolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06573904887494797998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1148080580374668812006-05-20T06:16:00.000+07:002006-05-20T06:16:00.000+07:00if you wanna have fun, view the following:http://w...if you wanna have fun, view the following:<BR/><BR/>http://www.flickr.com/photos/pnkzshrm/<BR/><BR/>Comments are welcome.<BR/><BR/>-The Cat the carries a Gun to guard the HomeCatGunHomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01634742346055380910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1148008154192929062006-05-19T10:09:00.000+07:002006-05-19T10:09:00.000+07:00Chennai and Mumbai are too commercial, too cosmo, ...Chennai and Mumbai are too commercial, too cosmo, too metro when compared to other coastal places u mentioned... And the difference is obvious!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1148001706118750722006-05-19T08:21:00.000+07:002006-05-19T08:21:00.000+07:00I love the island way of life. In Mauritius, I jus...I love the island way of life. In Mauritius, I just fell in love with the way people were - it's so addictive. I slept more, worried less, enjoyed everything. I think it is the sea, Usha. And having it all around makes a big difference, I think.<BR/><BR/>One thing though, if you have a huge deadline at work and you're all chilled out and taking it easy - it might not work out very well! :)<BR/><BR/>I wish I could have joined you on your trip! Pas de problème... la prochaine fois, peut-etre? :)Vaishnavi Tekumallahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16842568315665641921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1147997226938456022006-05-19T07:07:00.000+07:002006-05-19T07:07:00.000+07:00I have lived in Los Angeles, CA, on the shores of ...I have lived in Los Angeles, CA, on the shores of the Pacific. To call the Angelinos hurried and active would be a gross understatement. Few drive at or below the posted speed. I have lived in Minnesota for several years, and comapred to LA, Minneapolis is a snail town! Ask a Minnesotan native though, and (s)he will call all the Californians as laid-back.<BR/><BR/>My daughter was born in Pondicherry, and I stayed there for a whole month, not as a tourist, but as an expectant father. I didn't see anything laid-back about Pondicherry. I certainly wasn't. Now if one lived in the Aurobindo Ashram, it might be a different matter, for s(he) was probably there for contemplation and relaxation. Ask a fisherman with a sick child if he was laid-back or happy with what he has, and you'll get an earfull. <BR/><BR/>You can't compare resort towns and tourists with ordinary working people anywhere, and pigeon-hole them into Portugese, Sea-taught, and I quote (Mahadevan), "Keralaite (<I>sic</I>) by nature are not 'happy with what they have and they do fret too much and exhibit a great deal of resilience to hardship and suffering".<BR/><BR/>Life anywhere is too complex to be stereotyped into catchy phrases and labels. To do so would be risking a slippery slope to racism and bigotry!The Rational Foolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06573904887494797998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1147952125377530432006-05-18T18:35:00.000+07:002006-05-18T18:35:00.000+07:00Good one.. Chennai and Mumbai ppl just feel that t...Good one.. Chennai and Mumbai ppl just feel that they have to race with the time...<BR/><BR/>Isnt it a pleasure to just take life as it comes and not rush by and enjoy all the beauties along its way..?<BR/><BR/>I actually realised during my trip to my native place that people staying in such peaceful places have a certain peace emanating from their faces. They are just so self-sufficient with what they have.. unlike us - city people who crave for more and more...:)Preethihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17503231911860660064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1147945081673966342006-05-18T16:38:00.000+07:002006-05-18T16:38:00.000+07:00Hi Usha,Your last question is the one that struck ...Hi Usha,<BR/><BR/>Your last question is the one that struck my mind too. If only Chennai was like that.harihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12770015716549903955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1147929177898645552006-05-18T12:12:00.000+07:002006-05-18T12:12:00.000+07:00:O i was there too 13th-15th!? cant agree less wit...:O i was there too 13th-15th!? cant agree less with you, given a chance i'll like to settle there! I got 10 picks from Pondicherry up my blog.Antara Mukherji https://www.blogger.com/profile/11349879198583737794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1147919243656504672006-05-18T09:27:00.000+07:002006-05-18T09:27:00.000+07:00oooh photos look good - travel is always nice i te...oooh photos look good - travel is always nice i tell ya ;pVisithrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14525994382867482657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1147866452616235042006-05-17T18:47:00.000+07:002006-05-17T18:47:00.000+07:00Thanks for reminding Ravi. Uploaded the pics too.....Thanks for reminding Ravi. Uploaded the pics too..Ushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1147865524834027112006-05-17T18:32:00.000+07:002006-05-17T18:32:00.000+07:00Usha,"...happy with what they have, do not fret to...Usha,<BR/>"...happy with what they have, do not fret too much and exhibit a great resilience to hardship and suffering" <BR/>If only we could all be like this, irrespective of the place of our residence and timezones! <BR/>Cheers,<BR/>Ravi<BR/>PS: Pics of Pondicherry?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com