tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post5817919471299091150..comments2023-10-09T18:12:29.276+07:00Comments on Agelessbonding: 10 million murders unpunishedUshahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comBlogger40125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-18315127896049570262009-11-27T22:08:33.836+07:002009-11-27T22:08:33.836+07:00Thanks for this article, I am reading it today, lo...Thanks for this article, I am reading it today, long, long after you first published it, but it's still as relevant. <br /><br />We need such write ups.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-71663208654878103012007-09-22T17:11:00.000+07:002007-09-22T17:11:00.000+07:00Hi everyone. In December 2006 I had started an in...Hi everyone. In December 2006 I had started an international campaign to raise awareness about the issues surround the elimination of 50 million women from India's population. It is called <B>The 50 Million Missing International Campaign </B> and is at <B>www.50millionmissing.com</B>. Yes actually it is at least 50 million based on the last census of 2002 -- and Dr. Amartya Sen is who first calculated the "missing" number in 1986. Then he had reported at least 37 million "missing". He coined the term "missing" for they were the people who should have been in India's population but were not! We have been having similar discussions like yours here -- and as a group our focus is on finding strategic solutions. <B>The first plan is to launch an international petition to be presented to the government of India </B>. This is essentially a genocide -- and it has to be dealt with on a massive governmental scale. Unless the law, the police and the administration cooperate -- any effort is like putting a band-aid on a cracked skull. I think it is our culture of secrecy and shame that has allowed for this to flourish to this monstrous size. Right now we are seeking suggestions about the format of the petition. So please, all of you, interested in joining in to make a difference, do click in and make your suggestions. Thanks, Rita BanerjiRita Banerjihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13299752523120403938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-85616878838680658372007-07-31T21:17:00.000+07:002007-07-31T21:17:00.000+07:00Mahadevan: I think no religion condones killing ch...Mahadevan: I think no religion condones killing children and yet this goes on - so it seems to me that the reasons are more economic and social. Perhaps religious gurus should openly denounce the practise like the Kanchi Shankaracharya used to talk against dowry. Perhpas in this swamiji/guru -struck society that may work. My latest post is inspired by your mention of "rape".<BR/><BR/>Abhilash:<BR/>ou might like to read the book "disappearing daughters" by geeta Aravamudan - would be grateful to take a peek too once you are finished!<BR/>www.hindu.com/mag/2007/05/27/stories/2007052750110500.htm<BR/><BR/>check this out too:<BR/>http://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140673606679300/fulltext<BR/><BR/>And I'd expect some more research from someone with your kind of background on this.Ushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-60653822621691489022007-07-31T03:04:00.000+07:002007-07-31T03:04:00.000+07:00Re hard data: While extensive literature exists on...Re hard data: While extensive literature exists on reasons for abortions (mostly to do with ignorance about contraception and no se4xual rights), and service quality (mostly abysmal), I couldn't find any published literature on the reasons for preference for male offspring, beyond the tired clich of "cultural mores".<BR/><BR/>So, before ANYTHING else, I would want some formative research to be done on the issue. The reasons u've mentioned in your post are ones we're all familiar with, but from a scientific POV, they're assumptions until proven otherwise. <BR/><BR/>having said that, I suspect u're mostly right, both about the stated reasons, as well as the fact they're misplaced. And that's a helluva understatement.<BR/><BR/>I'd just add one more point: the complicity of doctors in the genocide. We're all familiar with the cliche'd image of the back-alley quack who does abortions by stealth. Lets also talk about the tens of thousands of USG operators, most of them registered radiologists, who conduct ultrasound tests- and break the law about revealing the fetus' gender for money.A.R.Malikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07730096265453916468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-62333091062674129122007-07-29T15:35:00.000+07:002007-07-29T15:35:00.000+07:00The modern educated urban women and the less educa...The modern educated urban women and the less educated deprived rural women, both go for work, contribute to the family needs and are not financially dependent. Therefore, economic consideration alone does not dictate the passion for male child. Religion should have played a more positive role in providing a respectable place to women in society. Religion's failure to issue a 'fatwa' to its erring male members and submitting females and the dominant males' selfishness alone lead to female foeticide, female infanticide and rape ( equally heinous crime). <BR/>This abominable practice cuts across caste lines, relilgious practices and geographical boundaries in our region.Mahadevanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08659899620865902690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-66922647757929073252007-07-26T21:04:00.000+07:002007-07-26T21:04:00.000+07:00Krishnapriya:I do not have the figures on this bas...Krishnapriya:I do not have the figures on this based on income levels or social strata wise. But we do know that a preference for the male child exists cutting across class barriers. This is deeply entrenched in our society. We need to attack this.<BR/><BR/>Anon: I agree the census figures alone are not sufficient to reveal all and we need further studies to understand the problem in its entirety.<BR/>And yes the Srilankan experience must be worth a study and emulation. Please share if you find any resources detailing info on the Srilankan strategy.<BR/>Thank you.Ushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-1772634580648308332007-07-26T20:49:00.000+07:002007-07-26T20:49:00.000+07:00Usha:The same UNICEF document that you mention als...Usha:<BR/><BR/>The same UNICEF document that you mention also shows a uniform deterioration in the sex ratio from 1991 to 2001 across almost all states, north-east including. In Nagaland, it went down from 993 to 964, in Manipur from 974 to 957, in Arunachal Pradesh from 982 to 964, in Assam from 975 to 965, in Mizoram from 969 to 964, Sikkim from 965 to 963 and Tripura from 967 to 966.<BR/><BR/>That document also shows that most of the really worrying huge negative trends come in Punjab (875 to 798), Haryana (879 to 819), Chandigarh (899 to 845), Himachal (951 to 896), Maharashtra (946 to 913) and Uttaranchal (948 to 908).<BR/><BR/>I am not suggesting that religious and cultural attitudes do not play a role here...but one really has to be careful. Why the huge decline in Nagaland (-29), a state mostly Christian, and one where "Hindu" influence has been minimal? What explains why UP (the "Aryavarta" and the representation of all that "we" (the elite) are trying to leave behind) declined only from 927 to 916 (ok that's a low base anyway) and why Punjab went massively down from an even lower base of 875 to an astonishingly low 798)? Surely UP and Punjab are close, culturally speaking?<BR/><BR/>All this, at the very least, appears complex. I do not have an explanation but I suspect it is not as easy as we like to think. Religious prejudice, no doubt, has a role but it is by no means the complete explanation.<BR/><BR/>If we are to reverse the deteriorating sex ratio, then we have to understand what's going on first. I am suggesting that we don't have a good handle on what's been happening. I also think it is good if we understand Sri Lanka as that country managed to reverse its adverse sex ratio in a fairly short time and is also culturally close to us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-74834974544316458092007-07-26T20:22:00.000+07:002007-07-26T20:22:00.000+07:00Hi..I've been reading your posts for a while..And ...Hi..I've been reading your posts for a while..And thought about this a lot. I think there are a very distinct class of people who do these atrocities...They aren't the really poor laborours..landless, homeless, travelling workmen we see in those huts, for they take all their kids along, a male mouth to feed is the same as a female, the male and female work alongside, earning possibly similar daily wages. They aren't the really rich, nor the families that have more than enough money for their daily needs and enough intellectual exposure - the upper middle class. <BR/>I think the culprits are the ones who just have enough money to survive, and just enough brains to shut themselves from thoughts that they don't want to think - The lower middle class strata of society. No matter how we decry, there are still classes in society and they hardly mingle. And a survey of the known households where foeticide happened would tell us where the weakness in our society lies.Krishnapriyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06969935532252073088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-38724686358810319732007-07-26T14:23:00.000+07:002007-07-26T14:23:00.000+07:00Anon:My source was:http://www.censusindia.net/resu...Anon:<BR/>My source was:<BR/>http://www.censusindia.net/results/eci15_page3.html<BR/>I see that it just refers to the top rural and urban districts in which these states find a place. But even the average statewise is not very bad for these as seen from the Unicef figures here:<BR/>http://www.unicef.org/india/CHILD_SEX_RATIO.pdf<BR/><BR/>Changes between 1901 and 2001 may also be due to other factors such as people opting to have less number of children. An average family had 4 to 5 children then. Comparison over the past 30 years may be more realistic as we would be comparing figures under more or less similar conditions.<BR/>And you are right, legalisation of abortion and access to technology for gender detection have been major contributors.<BR/>Where ore natal detection is not available, the baby is killed at birth.Ushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-44772706248487292932007-07-26T13:18:00.000+07:002007-07-26T13:18:00.000+07:00As for the ratios regionwise, the northeast seems ...<I>As for the ratios regionwise, the northeast seems to be doing very well especially Manipur, Nagaland, Arunachal and sikkim- all over 1000!</I><BR/><BR/>I don't know where you got this information from but the data at the Census of India suggests otherwise. Take a look at this map at their website:<BR/><BR/>http://tinyurl.com/2jj8uc<BR/><BR/>The districts with a sex ratio greater than 1000 are mostly in Kerala and TN and Madhya Pradesh/Chattisgarh/Orissa (the "tribal" belt?) plus parts of Himachal and a few other districts. The Northeast as a whole seems to have a sex ratio less than 1000, even looking district-wise.<BR/><BR/>What is worrying - and in a certain sense, interesting - is why the sex ratio is declining over the years. Religious tradition etc. may explain why the sex ratio is biased against women but it does not explain the decline in the sex ratio over the years. On the medindia.com website, the sex ratio is reported as having declined from 946 in 1951 to 927 in 1991 while in 1901 the ratio was as "high" as 972. Surely, this decline cannot be due to religious traditions per se since these traditions did not change over that period.<BR/><BR/>I guess what might be going on is some combination of religious and culture factors along with some economic or even technological factors. (The development of things like sonograms which make it easy to determine the sex of the unborn child may have accentuated the existing prejudice against the girl child.)<BR/><BR/>Also, I think as Indians, we should pay greater attention to the remarkably contrary example of Sri Lanka since 1980 - after all, it too, shares the "cultural ethos" of the subcontinent to a large extent and understanding what has happened there may help develop policies relevant to us too.<BR/><BR/>I am no expert but will share whatever I find with this forum.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-80511507289385906112007-07-26T11:08:00.000+07:002007-07-26T11:08:00.000+07:00The Rf: Thankyou.Anon: please check this case stud...The Rf: Thankyou.<BR/>Anon: please check this case study on female infanticide in India and China at<BR/>http://www.gendercide.org/case_infanticide.html<BR/>It is obvious that in many of these countries , irrespective of the religion, the economoc and social causes for female infanticide are similar:<BR/>For example I quote from the above:<BR/>In china, "culture dictates that when a girl marries she leaves her family and becomes part of her husband's family. For this reason Chinese peasants have for many centuries wanted a son to ensure there is someone to look after them in their old age -- having a boy child is the best pension a Chinese peasant can get. Baby girls are even called "maggots in the rice" ... ("The Dying Rooms Trust")<BR/><BR/>As for the ratios regionwise, the northeast seems to be doing very well especially Manipur, Nagaland, Arunachal and sikkim- all over 1000!<BR/><BR/>As the Rf mentions in his comment, please share your findings.Ushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-78691757553800385542007-07-26T09:26:00.000+07:002007-07-26T09:26:00.000+07:00Usha,I'd like to respond to the anonymous' questio...Usha,<BR/><BR/>I'd like to respond to the anonymous' questions; I hope you don't mind.<BR/><BR/>Anon,<BR/><BR/>(1) The 10 million figure is a statistically interpreted number based on a study, <A HREF="http://www.thelancet.com/home" REL="nofollow">published in the Lancet</A> medical journal. It uses 1997 data collected from "ever-married women living in 1ยท1 million households in 6671 nationally-representative units". The full text of the article is available <A HREF="http://download.thelancet.com/pdfs/journals/0140-6736/PIIS0140673606679300.pdf" REL="nofollow">here</A> (requires free registration).<BR/><BR/>(2,3) As far as I know, the Hindu religious strictures on the need for a son cut across caste lines. Then again, I am an atheist, what do I know :( If you have info to the contrary, please share it with us. It is also my contention that these cut across religious lines, in India and the neighboring countries, deeply entrenching themselves in the cultural ethos of the region. Witness, for example, all the controversies over casteism among Indian Muslims and Christians, their conversions to these religions not withstanding. Not that these religions are any less misogynist than Hinduism.<BR/> <BR/>Taken together with the economic causes (in China, for e.g) of female genocide, it may be possible to explain the data that you have pointed to, but that'd be serious academic exercise. If you have the time and interest, please do so; it'll go a long way in improving our understanding of this despicable phenomenon.The Rational Foolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06573904887494797998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-3623818353305767572007-07-26T08:07:00.000+07:002007-07-26T08:07:00.000+07:00Sunita:Agree.Bala:Yes this issue is so large that ...Sunita:Agree.<BR/><BR/>Bala:Yes this issue is so large that each one of us needs to take the initiative to counter this kind of prejudice at an individual level - help, educate or threaten then with the law.<BR/><BR/>Sirensongs; Thank you for the information. Please keep me updated on any action plan that needs to be passed around to people. Would love to contribute in my small way. Will be watching your space for developments too.<BR/><BR/>Fuzzy:Yes what your mom did is what we all need to do. if we can educate that one person each, we can make a difference.<BR/><BR/>anon:These are accepted statistics published in all he newspapers across the country based on research work done by health workers and private agencies. Please go to google and type "foeticide in India statistics" and see what you get.<BR/>Thanks for your pointers.Ushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-55701490706648158442007-07-26T02:01:00.000+07:002007-07-26T02:01:00.000+07:001. Could you give us some idea as to where the 10...1. Could you give us some idea as to where the 10 million number came from?<BR/><BR/>2. Most of the "reasons" you put forward for the low sex ratios seem particular to Hindus; perhaps, even more particularly to high-caste Hindus. Yet, even states with low percentage of Hindus (parts of the Northeast, for example) have low sex ratios. Is the explanation perhaps more complex?<BR/><BR/>3. Related to the above, the countries surrounding India - since they are mostly non-Hindu - ought to have better sex ratios. They don't, except for Sri Lanka and Myanmar. However, Sri Lanka's gains appear to have been since 1980 and they have been startling, to say the least. See the map of world sex ratios and observe Sri Lanka's progress since 1980 at:<BR/><BR/>http://tinyurl.com/yur4n5<BR/><BR/>I also note from the above map a regression in Bhutan's sex ratio - I have no idea why.<BR/><BR/>I don't know any of the answers; just pointing out some things to ponder. Btw, for a map of the 2001 sex ratio state-wise, see<BR/><BR/>http://tinyurl.com/ndthsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-48246894178020021772007-07-25T22:10:00.000+07:002007-07-25T22:10:00.000+07:00This is such depressing news and everytime I read ...This is such depressing news and everytime I read this it gets my blood boiling.Education and awareness is certainly the key. But does it really?I know of so many so called educated class of people who openly state their preference for one gender over the other when it comes to their progeny. Not to mention the hefty dowries and the absolutely applalling attitude towards girls in general. And at times its the women who themselves discriminate which makes it all the more sad!Everytime the news makes headlines and then it gets forgotten becomes another statistical figure. It all boils down to the need for change in the whole attitude of the society and mass awareness and education can help. And each one has to do what they can. When our maid was hell bent on putting her young daughters to work rather than school my mom fought tooth and nail with her and made her agree to send them back to school. Maybe if we can succeed even changing the attitude of one person and empowering one woman I think that can be a start.Fuzzylogichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00393173920058729914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-76809073871908361472007-07-25T20:32:00.000+07:002007-07-25T20:32:00.000+07:00Thanks for this post, and thanks to all the commen...Thanks for this post, and thanks to all the commenters for being so engaged with this subject.<BR/> <BR/>Please check out the international campaign, '50 Million Missing,' aimed at raising awareness of this very issue, India's female genocide. Our core concept is to represent as many of the missing Indian women and girls with a photograph, and eventually to have a touring photo/educational exhibit and publish a book of the photos and essays. Check it out at<BR/>http://www.flickr.com/groups/50_million_missing<BR/><BR/>Sorry to crash your page like this but it is great to see so many people discussing the subject in one place. Thanks again for being empassioned!Sirensongshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01822574155670958895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-16779419214818813692007-07-25T16:12:00.000+07:002007-07-25T16:12:00.000+07:00What a shame. In 20 years more than twice the popu...What a shame. In 20 years more than twice the population of a country (like NZ) is killed in India!<BR/><BR/>Why have be brought our country to such a pass? By 'We' I mean all of us...our ancestors etc. taking collective responsibility for the crime...by our greed and competition and lack of social conscience.<BR/><BR/>Now, a good thought can be 'how can the good people contribute to prevent such atrocities?.'<BR/><BR/>Surely this country is worsening because of apathy from the Good people...as much as from the badness of the bad people.Wellingtonbalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04960148185436265682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-52851481317744709362007-07-25T13:51:00.000+07:002007-07-25T13:51:00.000+07:00Yeah Usha, it boils your blood to see stuff like t...Yeah Usha, it boils your blood to see stuff like this happening around. Education is the only mantra that will change attitudes and bring in women empowerment. Things can change only when every individual can voice their choice fearlessly and we can believe in law & order of the country to protect us when we do.Sunitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07347370529459467244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-5713555745195159842007-07-25T12:23:00.000+07:002007-07-25T12:23:00.000+07:00The RF:Was just answering on your behalf!:)The RF:Was just answering on your behalf!<BR/>:)Ushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-36626594390520334442007-07-25T11:40:00.000+07:002007-07-25T11:40:00.000+07:00Usha wrote:Don't you think it is a backward thinki...Usha wrote:<BR/><I>Don't you think it is a backward thinking man that oppresses a woman? ... </I><BR/>That's precisely what I think!The Rational Foolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06573904887494797998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-84449063534837051212007-07-25T10:35:00.000+07:002007-07-25T10:35:00.000+07:00dotmom:Some stats are available but we cant say ho...dotmom:Some stats are available but we cant say how reliable they are. I am sure the figure is larger than the stats show. For links see the post by The Rational Fool at http://the rationalfool.blogspot.com. I read your post on this issue toe . I appreciate your POV. I am glad that more people are thinking about the issue and talking about what we CAN do rather than saying it doesn't happen in our circles. Social awareness and involvement are the first steps towards changing the situation.<BR/><BR/>random vignettes: Write about it. Talk to people who think girls are lesser than boys. Educate your maids on their rights on the opportunities available for a woman beyond marriage. Sponsor the education of their girl child.<BR/><BR/>Nisha: The sad fact is that it is not just the uneducated and the poor who have prejudices against a girl child. This is more deep seated than that.<BR/>You are right, we need to become more aware of our rights, become more confident to stand on our two feet. The more priveleged women need to be there for them all the way.<BR/><BR/>The RF: Don't you think it is a backward thinking man that oppresses a woman? applies equally to them both I guess.Ushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-20846111278625895592007-07-25T02:22:00.000+07:002007-07-25T02:22:00.000+07:00Nisha said:Though we say that India is growing lea...Nisha said:<BR/><I>Though we say that India is growing leaps and bounds in all fields, there is <B>a section of the society</B>, that needs lots of development ... </I><BR/><BR/>Did you mean men or women ;)The Rational Foolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06573904887494797998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-63807104035420221802007-07-25T01:01:00.000+07:002007-07-25T01:01:00.000+07:00Though we say that India is growing leaps and boun...Though we say that India is growing leaps and bounds in all fields, there is a section of the society, that needs lots of development in lifestyle, food and education. Just literacy is not enough, we need to educate them on their rights, we need to teach them self respect and acceptance of who they are. Whatever or whoever will do it is a mystery. But we can definitely bring about a change at a smaller level by educating our maids and others who work for us, with us.Subhashreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02056826644628075658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-75453308223504615172007-07-24T23:43:00.000+07:002007-07-24T23:43:00.000+07:00I commented earlier, but there was so much I neede...I commented earlier, but there was so much I needed to say to your post and MadMomma's and the comment left by Rational Fool, I ended up blogging. I am playing the devil's advocate, do be patient. But do read and leave me your thoughts.<BR/>http://thekarmacallingblog.blogspot.com/2007/07/gender-bender.htmlSavanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13781198953037866788noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974677.post-21487207638041454162007-07-24T23:12:00.000+07:002007-07-24T23:12:00.000+07:00Am sure there is something we can do..at the grass...Am sure there is something we can do..at the grassroot level at any level at all...am sure even one step that is taken will amount to something..anything is better than this inactivity.<BR/>If there is something..anything that we can do then please please do let me know..this kind of rage eases only once I act on it.Random Vignetteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01708028790447486965noreply@blogger.com